Sigh, the dreaded day came and went for us to re-apply/qualify for our apartment. Its nice to know that we dont have a clue whether or not we will stay or go.
Management called me on thursday mid morning to let me know that my husbands job wasnt cooperating with them to get his income/job verification. I let them know that they needed to get in contact with his corporate office to get that information. They then told me that if hubby thinks he is going to play a game with them on getting verification then we can just go ahead and give our 30 day notice! WTH!!! He told them ahead of time that his job probly wont be too cooperative and then says its his fault. When i called him i asked what was going on, and find out that the apartments are being rude to the rep that is trying to get them the info. They are making hubby look bad and i dont appreciate it. I call them back to assure them that they will get the information that they need and i get blown off the phone. SERIOUSLY?!?!?!
I am split in 2 with my feelings. On one hand i want us to stay. I dont want to take the kids out of school and if we stay til summer time i just dont want to move period. But on the other hand, i have found dozens of duplex's and homes for rent lower than what we are paying here. It would get us closer to the hospital for raiden and closer to hubbys job. I just cant believe this is why we might be moving. Cuz management doesnt like his hr department. We are awesome tenants, never had a complaint and always pay rent....maybe not on time but it always gets paid!
From the few people that iv talked to that have lived here this place is a sham...a wolf in sheep's clothing if you will. They make issues with the apartments yours not theirs. They take their time with fixing things. They make you feel dumb for asking questions. Guess out of all the places that iv had to live, being in an "upstanding" neighborhood was just a bit to much to ask for. Oh and did i mention that of all the places that iv lived ony here have i seen the police or ambulance or fire trucks here every day just about....id say 6out of 7days a week one of those three if not all at the same time are here.
Im hoping if we do have to move its waking distance to a school. So if i run out of gas i can still walk the kids to school. It would also be cool if the hospital was within that type of distance...just thinking ahead for rays next surgery. If he is there for 3 weeks i want to be there everyday and if im out of gas i cant go, if i dont have 12$ for parking i cant go...i dont want to have to worry about those two factors...i want to be able to go see my baby. I know that area isnt the best but if i can get a place near the hospital and elementary school that would be soooo awesome.
Its crazy to think all this is about to happen too. Ebony and Kai are about to be done with school, raiden just had his 1yr birthday, wyatt is 2months old.... my kids are growing and our family is getting stronger everyday threw all the trials that we have and are going threw and about to go threw. Im so glad that i have my friend Bev to help me spiritually threw this. Having my weekly bible studies has been such a help. Iv been able to go to one meeting and praying that i will be able to start going more regularly. Ebony loves going but she woke up this morning round 4am with a nasty cough and complaining of a sore throat for the past few days....looks like i will be quarantining her for the next 24 hours so that she can get better.
With all this chaos im surprised at myself when i catch myself thinking of more kids!! I dont think i would really want more in this system tho. All the hardships and trials that there are. Not to mention the risk of having another heart baby. We are by far not out of the woods with raiden, so to have another i think would be to much for me. Looking forward to the new system, and then building a large farmhouse for my huge family lol
Poor wyatt is having a hard time coping with his 2month shots. He has been spitting up a bit more than usual and just a tad on the fussy side. He got a fever just once and tylenol helped that go away. But hes not back to himself just yet. Hoping that he will feel better soon, hoping that kai and raiden dont get sick...cuz if they do then i know in a weeks time mark will get sick and then just a few days later it will be me. Time to sanitize LOL
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